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The Alternate Checklist

2025-11-10

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A reflection on realistic goal-setting, ownership, and why relationships matter more than vanity metrics.

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The Alternate Checklist

At the start of the year, I made an alternate checklist.

The target was simple: if I could complete even half of it, I would call it a win.

What happened

  • Made a decent amount
  • Paid part of my fee independently
  • Built valuable connections
  • Met genuinely lovely people
  • Learned key lessons the hard way

Biggest lesson

Relationships are everything.

Prioritize long-term, high-quality, mutually beneficial connections.
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Next steps

  • Volunteer for causes that matter
  • Take leadership roles that challenge growth

I skipped these earlier and now I am intentionally coming back to them.